среда, 15. мај 2013.

How to flirt?!

Hi! :D
You are teenage girl. :) I'm too, and i know *that* feel when you want boyfriend.. Oops! When you NEED boyfriend hahaha :D So you probably want to know how to flirt :D

Here's the ways:


1.
Show him you're interested. Before you start full-on flirting, you can send a few subtle signals to get started.
  • Make eye contact. While you don't want it to look like you're staring deep into his soul, lingering eye contact will show him you're interested. It will also be a good indicator of his interest—if he holds the eye contact, he's probably into you. If he looks away he might not be, or he might just be shy.
  • Smile. This will show him that you are having fun, and will put him at ease. It will also help you relax!
  • Find subtle ways to put yourself in his path. Walk past his desk on your way out the door, or take your dog to the same park he plays soccer at. Be careful not to overdo this, though, or you'll end up looking like a stalker.


2.
Consider making the first move. Sure, you could wait for him to come to you. But there's a lot of expectation on guys to start the pursuit, and it can get tiring. If you approach him, you'll instantly stand out among all the other girls he might consider dating — and you get to pick the perfect moment for you.

3.
Start talking. Find an opportunity to chat him up about something you have in common, whether it's school, work, or a random event you both just saw happen.
  • Open with a question. This will show you're interested in getting to know him, not just interested in talking about yourself.
  • Transition to talking about him. People love to talk about themselves.
  • Smile and laugh. Again, this shows that your comfortable around him and, more than that, that you enjoy listening to him talk.
 
4.
Break the touch barrier. Finding small ways to touch him is an obvious signal that you're flirting, and shows him that you're willing to make a small level of physical contact. Try doing it in these ways:
  • Touch his forearm lightly while you're talking. When he makes a funny joke, reach your hand out and touch his arm while you're laughing. Alternatively, you can do this as a form of playful or genuine consolation.
  • Put a hand on his shoulder. This works best if you're standing close.
  • "Accidentally" lean into him if you're walking together. If you're already flirty and you want to move things to the next level, brush your hand against his a few times and see how he reacts.


5.
Pay him a compliment. Don't expect the compliments to go one-way — guys like them, too! Making him feel appreciated and noticed shows him that you're interested in him as a person, and you're paying attention to what's important. Here's how to make your compliment even more amazing: 
  • Lean in close and lower your voice slightly. This makes the compliment seem intimate and secret.
  • Make eye contact while you say it. This will highlight your sincerity.
  • Keep smiling slightly. This will highlight the intimacy of the compliment.
  • Be specific. The more specific you are, the more personal the compliment will be. If you say something generic such as "I think you're hot," chances will be that he's heard it before. If you focus on a specific trait or quality that you love, the compliment will be fresh and you'll stick out in his mind.

 
6.
End it before he gets bored. Don't let the conversation drag on so long that he has time to get bored or distracted. Instead, walk away while he's still interested so that he can't wait to see you again.
  • Leave an opening for next time. If you say, "I have to run, but maybe I'll see you around tomorrow?", you've already planted the idea that you'll see him again.
  • Lean in like you want a kiss, but at the last minute turn your head and whisper "I had a great time" in his ear.


 That's it :D Do you like it? :D I found it here :D

Minii Meow♥

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